Getting your heart broken is never a great experience. So sometimes even after we have done the emotional healing work to get past the pain. We still won’t open up to love. We will keep our hearts locked away, as we think this is the only way to protect ourselves.
The problem being that we miss out on all the great things about love. So instead of shutting down to love, I am going to share with you the heart opening tools that I use to keep my heart open.
Heart Opening Yoga Poses
Some yoga poses allow you to physically allow your heart to be front and center. Instead of closing yourself off by hiding your heart, you use a pose to extend your heart.
While I am not a yoga teacher, I will tell you that there are many poses to choose from. Over the decades of my practice, I have found two poses that are easy, and I like. They are the cobra pose and high lunge.
Here is a heart opening practice from my favorite YouTube teacher!
Heart Chakra Music
Music is a great way to change our moods and tune our bodies. Music has vibrations, known as hertz. Different frequencies impact our bodies in different ways. Think about how when you workout different songs can either boost your performance or slow you down. It can also impact your chakra system. For the heart, a hertz of 639 will help you open it up.
I love to use Sonic Yogi’s music when I am struggling with a chakra. Here is his heart chakra piece that I like.
Ho’oponopono
This is a Hawaiian prayer for forgiveness. The words are: “I’m sorry, Please forgive me, Thank you, I love you.”
They are intended to be used like a mantra where you repeat them over and over. It works for forgiveness on yourself and others. It is very powerful, especially if you do it on a regular basis. My trick is to also imagine the person you are trying to get over while saying this. Imagining that you are directly forgiving them.
Tapping (Emotional Freedom Technique)
Tapping uses the meridian system to help you release the past and re-write your beliefs. You can feel emotions leaving your body as you do a series of tapping. I will do this after journaling about a situation I am struggling with. It is a great way to bring closure to any emotional work that you are doing. My favorite teacher is Brad Yates. Here is one of his videos that I use for opening my heart to love.
Essential Oils
Essential oils are another one of my favorite ways to shift mood. Especially one where I don't need to do much. Just turn on the diffuser or use a roller on my wrist! I will use the essential oils while doing the Ho'oponopono prayer, for a nice added boost.
There are some essential oils that will help your heart open. My favorites are pink grapefruit, rose otto and bergamot. I use the heart chakra loving compassion blend from Plant Therapy.
Heart Mudras
During meditation using a heart chakra mudra is a powerful way to open up the energy. Mudras help direct the energy to where you want it to go.
The one that I use takes your thumb and presses it against the thumb and ring finger. This is officially called the Hridaya Mudra.
Journaling
I love journaling for most everything! It lets you dig in and explore your beliefs and what is blocking you. Then find a solution to begin to fix it.
Using it to understand what your fears around love are, will help you open up your heart. Here are some journal prompts to help you understand why you are blocking your heart.
How to Put Together A Heart Opening Practice
Now that you have some options to help with opening your heart. Let's explore how to create a practice that works for you.
The goal is to find a combination of practices that allows you to feel safe, forgive others and open to new possibilities. This can take time, especially if you are just getting over a breakup. Or are doing deep healing work on many relationships that have the same theme. You may have to play with different combinations till you find what works for you in the moment.
Remember we are all unique, so you will need to adjust till you find what helps you.
Sample Practice Ideas For Heart Opening
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